Even if you're not enough for someone else, the important thing is only to be enough for you. That Jing-mei is content in her life. I started out in playing the violin 3 years ago and when i first began i wasnt very enthusiastic about playing. Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind! The author, Amy Tan is a second generation Chinese immigrant. She constantly presses Jing-Mei to do better and be better at whatever activity she participates, but why is she doing this? She places unreasonable expectations on the shoulders of her young, tender daughter. Jing Mei has matured from a girl into a woman and her mother offers peace for the main issue in their relationship, which was the piano.
By narratively stating the conversations she has encountered, readers perceive a strong implication of the reason for a future conflict between her and her mother. Woo believes in America's promise: With hard work and a little luck, Jing-mei can be anything that she chooses to be. The mother had lost her entire family full of children except for the one in the story. One of the relationships explored is that between an immigrant Chinese mother and her American born daughter Jing-mei. These songs represent the feelings that the daughter, Jing-mei, has had throughout her life. She plays a song called Pleading Child and does absolutely terrible. Amy Tan uses more dialogue than rhetorical devices in her story.
In a society that values individuality, the daughter sought to be an individual, while her mother demanded she do what was suggested. This time too, the decision been arrived without rationale and conviction. Jing-Mei goes through a lot of stress trying to please her mother because at the end of the day, she is her mother and will want the best for her daughter. At first, she thought that her daughter would be like Shirley Temple as they watched how talented Shirley Temple was in acting. In today's society, each individual is living his or her life in different a way than others. The mother wanted her child to be a piano prodigy, but Jing Mei, which has also a strong temper, doesn't submit to her mother's decisions and doesn't want to become one.
Chong and her mother entered Jing-Mei in a talent contest. Eventually, they settle on piano playing, though it doesn't turn out the way that either Jing-Mei or her mother hope. Comparing and contrasting the way the authors use their inimitable writing style to achieve their intentions in the story will give us more idea how these stories are alike and distinct. Jing Mei's mother wanted her to be a successful child, but Jing-Mei just kept failing. The mother expects Jing-mei to be a prodigy child - while pursuing this dream she unintentionally creates a serious conflict between her and her daughter. Jing-Mei felt as if she was never good enough for her mother; I can relate to this on a personal level. Throughout the story, the mother imposes upon her daughter, Jing Mei, her hopes and dreams for her.
She regrets not trying her best, and the way she has taken her mother for granted in her life. This fight to find her own identity against her mother's wishes shows how parents cannot control their child's life; they can only point them in the right direction and let them make their own choices. I think this is what Jing-Mei felt constantly: not being good enough. This is the theme of the story, conflicting values. Her struggle is that of a young girl growing up and trying to find her own sense of identity. There is nothing wrong in following your mind and doing what actually makes you happy. She does not give instruction about solving a family crisis, instead, she writes her story as a sort of diary expressing how she felt about her childhood events.
The arguments presented are limited to that of first and third person perspectives only. Jeng-mei mother was from a different time and a different place in comparison to Jeng-mei. I think this was a really emotional story too because of the conflict between a mother and daughter relationship but soon the daughter realized that her mom only want her to be good. By applying the concepts of Virginia Woolf, Elaine Showalter, and the three stages of feminism, one can analyze the discourse Tan uses in the story and its connection to basic feminist principles. She said that she didn't want her to be perfect or a genius but just to try her best at things. In the story, the author shows the difficult lives immigrants face when moving to a new culture.
You think I want you to be genius? At times, it can be in the best interest of the child to have a parent motivate them in a specific direction, but as in this story it can sometimes backfire, and the child can be left with feelings of disapproval and questions of self-worth. American Culture in Amy Tan's The Joy Luck Club An author's cultural background can play a large part in the authors writing. But as the years progressed and i improved i am going somewhere with my playing. The mother coming from a society that is very hard working and obedient trying to instill the upbringing she had I her life. Jing-me is an impressionable nine year old girl living in an apartment with her parents.
Suyuan, although patronizing, yearns for her daughter's obedience and best qualities. Lindo Jong was good playing chess and also competed with that. In the sixties, many Chinese immigrants came to America to persuade their American Dreams. The mother is very persistent on having the daughter follow the American Dream and making her a prodigy. Her mother believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America. Tan writes about the intricacy of a daughter and mother relationship who migrated from China to America.
She had to accept her daughter for the person she wanted to be. Tan illuminates the euro centricity of the Master Narrative by retelling for both genders, historically speaking, women have faced significantly more repercussions. And Jing-mei wins the argument — or does she? The story centers around her mother's quest to find what will make Jing-Mei a prodigy - for in America, you can be anything. She takes the piano into her home and begins playing through her old music. The main characters both painfully learned that thisinitiation was beyond their control. Amy Tan does a phenomenal job, not only by portraying a very real mother-daughter relationship, but at showing how much a young girl can change. The conflicts presented are: Man vs.
Both women in the poem are going through the same motions of life, of raising a child and getting married. People can feel identified with what Jing-Mei is feeling, as well as with the relationships that Jing-Mei and her mother have. In overall I enjoyed reading this story. The plot of a story is the way the events play out in the story. June lets the reader know that she deeply regrets using Suyuan's sadness against her in this epic battle between mother and daughter. The internal effort to find her true self is a lesson Jing-mei will have to discover, as she gets older.